Sunday, March 22, 2009

Why Women Cry

"Why are you crying?" A little boy asked his mother.

"Because I'm a woman." she told him.

"I don't understand..." he said perplexedly. His mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could reply.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry...

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:

"When I made a woman, she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up , and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances , even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife , but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her tears to shed. This is exclusively hers to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, neither the figure that she carries, nor the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

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BLOGGER'S LAST REMARKS/ P.S.

  • I kinda stole this from a forward message and tweaked things here and there! ;)
  • I'm tooooo lazy to write a blog these days. I should say for more than 2 months (approaching 3rd month soon...hahahahaa) I haven't written any blog whatsoever!....
  • Oh, I HATE ASSIGNMENTS!!!!! (psshh....who doesn't! :) lol....)
  • Last but not least, I hope it's an enjoyable one to read! :)
  • PLEASE DO LEAVE A COMMENT! THANKS! :)

22 comments:

amritesh kumar jaiswal said...

hmmmm
really nice one and while reading one can roam to his back and feel the sacrifices that our mothers have made to bring us to this ..
but i am bit perplexed tht how u got this much indiana in u while u are not in india...
gd keep it up..

Neha said...

@ amritesh
well, 1stly, thank you!
2ndly, why r u so perplexed?

Unknown said...

hey the article was wicked, i cud feel it while i was reading it. good job:)

Neha said...

awwww....thanx raman! :) i thought it was a very touching article too, thus i wanted to share it with every1! :)
and thanx for the comment! it surely added the colour/color to my blog...hehehehee...lol! :)

Chayan Punetha said...

hmmm......
i am remembering a Bob Marley song...
"No Woman No Cry...."

Nice article......!

amritesh kumar jaiswal said...

ok i wll not get perplexed from next time...
but i was happy to see the peppy indian feeling in u ....

Ashish Gourav said...

I expected a lot from this post but soon my retarded mind had a feeling of DEJA VU!!! "maine kahin padha hai??".....and honestly u said its a forwarded mail but still it'll now be more visible in the internet through ur blog.......
and one more thing at leat you had to
1. copy
2. paste
3. publish

so u have done a reasonable job :)

Neha said...

@ chayan
no women no cry? grrrr!!!...
no women yaani no love :D hahahhaa...lol....
and thankku! thanks for the compliment in the comment ^_^

@ amritesh
what is so indian about it? :O

@ ashish
thank you! :)
i dont wanna get sued for plagiarism, so work being published must be cited na! :P
and u had the deja vu, cuz u must have read it form the forward msg i sent u(or perhaps from some1 else!) :D lol...

Ankit said...

very touching post indeed...after reading this my memory flashed this quote by a famous hindi poet

"Ek nahi do do matrao wali nar se barkar hai yeh nari"

amritesh kumar jaiswal said...

what i do believe is tht Indian women are culturally much adhered so they need to do more sacrifices... and yr blog is apt for them....

Neha said...

@ ankit
thank you! :)
keep visiting for the new blogs :)

@ amritesh
they 'need' to do more sacrifices? dont they already do enough?

NR said...

Thats the reason why one should respect woman more...its a woman who goes through a lot of stages with pain but never complains!!!

Nice post....thanks for sharing this articles with us!!!!

take care

Neha said...

@ nazish
hey thanx for the compliment!...
and i do agree that women go thru a lot of pain, but they do also complain!..maybe not all, but we do!!!...i'm a living proof of that!...hahahhaa...lol! :P

PD said...

लिजिये आपने कमेंट मांगा और हमने दिया..
वैसे जब मैंने पढ़ना शुरू किया तो कुछ पढ़ा-पढ़ा सा लगा.. अंत में राज का पर्दाफाश हो ही गया.. शायद कभी मुझे भी यह मेल मिला था.. :)

Neha said...

श्रीमान प्रशांत जी, आपके कमेंट के लिए धन्यवाद! :)

NR said...

lol...well thats a part a human nature by default!!!!

NR said...

ya do post it on your blog and help me in spreading this piece of information that many of us dont know.

lolz... dont worry u wont be caught in a controversy of plagiarism..!!!

take care

The Vitruvian Boy said...

Hmm....
I wonder why men cry ....

The boy never cried in his life or what? :P

Neha said...

@ nazish
yea, it is part of human nature. and i believe that men also cry because they have heart of gold just as women do! :) i just thought it was a touching forward msg so i had posted it here :D lol...
and i will surely copy and paste the voting thingy from ur blog as soon as i get done with all the crappy assignments i have to do for my courses! :(

@ The Vitruvian Boy
we all cry because of feelings that are produced in our brain. it's not just that women cry!...lol!..i would have to do extensive profound research to explain this to u and i dont wnna do that cuz i dont have time :P lol...
and perhaps the boy did cry in his life....reasons may vary :P

amritesh kumar jaiswal said...

i didnt mean tht...
what i wish to say is that our cultural complexes made them to do more sacrifices not i wish!!!

Neha said...

@ amritesh
yea, i know what u mean! :) but how many more cultures have u seen in the world?

amritesh kumar jaiswal said...

hmmm gd question.. not so many ..
but i have seen german, iranian...
u can tell me about more cultures if u hv time!!